Announcing the Third Class in our Speaking Peace Class Series
Learning the skills and consciousness necessary to establish and maintain peaceful, flowing, and satisfying relationships with both ourselves and others requires changing the habits of a life-time, especially if you were born and raised in western technological culture. And because or natural language is the cooperative and partnership language essential to our well-being, once we encounter a more satisfying possibility we want to realize our hope as soon as possible.
NVC provides both a consciousness and set of skills that together serve to create a bridge to a new, satisfying and cooperative way of living; our Speaking Peace Class Series is designed to cover the foundational understandings and experiences necessary for confident use of NVC.
Our Speaking Peace Class Series is comprised of three, eight-classes, each section of the series addresses a separate part of your developing integrated ability.
Finally, once you understand the pain in your relationships and your contribution to that pain, our Life Applications class will support you to extend your new skills and understandings into all the areas of your life. We will explore the most common kinds of missed connections that occur in our lives, and practice having successful and satisfying outcomes instead. In our Life Applications class you will learn to:
- Examine our personal beliefs about engaging in what can be charged conversations.
- Automatically turn toward self-connection whenever anything appears “difficult.”
- Experience successful outcomes in situations that you have lost hope achieving satisfying connections.
Taken together, our three-class Speaking Peace Class Series can provide a solid basis for you to create the delicious experience of peaceful and satisfying relationships.
I have been practicing and sharing Nonviolent Communication (NVC) since 2003 as part of my passion for building stronger relationships, (focusing on, though not limited to, Couples and Parenting,) while developing more integrated and sustainable communities. Teaching NVC has been central to my life since 2010 and I have been working with the Kathleen Macferren, Karl Staeyert, and the rest of the core team on the Trainer Community Certification Path (TCCP). I completed my NVC Trainer Certification with CNVC in 2016.
As a Rose City NVC Teacher Training Program (TTP) participant, I have co-taught NVC classes with Fred Sly, and have facilitated Rose City NVC's Foundations and Integrations Classes and Tuesday night NVC Practice Group for the last 4 plus years. I have taught NVC at Oregon State Penitentiary, Columbia River Correctional Institution, the Reentry Transition Center in Portland, and currently teach at Coffee Creek Correctional Facility (for Women). Simultaneously, I have participated in the Trainer Community Certification Path (TCCP) intensives since 2011, and have co-taught NVC classes with LaShelle Lowe-Charde. I also currently offer Individual and Couples Coaching to my greater Portland community.
My personal NVC journey includes many other forms of spiritual work with an emphasis on meditative and body awareness practices. I integrate practices which allow me other avenues to touch the essence of our NVC work. While I believe the words and the form on NVC can help my participants touch into a place of greater compassion and understanding, I also believe that holding a space of compassion and understanding in myself creates ease in adopting the new words (silently and out loud) for my participants. My spiritual outlook related to NVC is to align my daily will in progress towards unconditional love, acceptance, non-judgement, and spaciousness. My vision for an NVC world is that one day most adults will hold this type of unconditional and loving space most of the time supporting each other in the hard times and the development of those still growing so we can be present to more of each moment on this earth.